Sometimes our siblings of the foster care system try to put on a brave face and not show the world that they are struggling - right up until the moment that all the dominos fall down. (this is something that I did after aging out)
When that happens, we need to figure out the best way to help them. Not just for the moment, but building a way to succeed in the future:
1.) Are they connected with statewide and local resources that could help them in this situation?
2.) Have they reached out to local and statewide resources and asked for help?
3.) Do they have a local support network - and if so, are there ways that we could advise that support network to do specific things to help them?